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8 Ways To Spice Up Your Relationship

Whether you have been married for 20 years or living together for a couple of years, routine gets in everyone’s life. There is nothing wrong with routine. However, spicing up your relationship on a regular basis can only make it stronger and last longer.

1. Engage in sexual intercourse outside the bedroom

If you are sexually conservative don’t worry there are many ways that do not involve public places or making you uncomfortable, it can be in front of the TV or while cooking together. You could also surprise your partner while he/she is in the shower.

2. Explore a new destination together

Having a new destination to explore brings adventure and fun, ideally getting out of your comfort zone for more impact. You could challenge yourself culturally, by going to a country where the languages you speak are not at all spoken or understood.

3. Ladies, Bring out the lingerie

Forget your pyjamas or usual underwear, every woman needs a lingerie drawer. Some men enjoy lingerie more than others, however even for the ones who are not that sensitive to it, seeing their partner in a very sexy outfit can only turn them on, and they will for sure appreciate the effort and perhaps start enjoying it.

4. Plan a date night

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you can’t have date nights. Go see a movie, have dinner in a romantic place, plan a spa day, go to a concert. You need to have fun and relax with your partner. This is what a relationship is about, building memories.

5. Sext your partner at the most inappropriate time of the day

You could send teasing pictures of yourself, simply tell them about your fantasies or what you wish you were doing at that moment, while they are in a very important meeting. They will probably think about it for the rest of the day.

6. Write a love note

Who doesn’t love handwritten notes? It can be a naughty, sweet, or romantic note, the point is, you wrote it thinking of them. You could leave them a note in the morning, saying that you can’t wait to see them tonight or that they better be naked when you come home. These notes increase the bond between you and your partner bringing better sex. 

7. Surprise your partner

A surprise can be anything, if you are looking to spice things up in the bedroom you can welcome your partner naked at the door, or wake them up with a sensual massage. If you are looking to spice things up generally speaking, book a weekend away they do not expect at all.

8. Gentlemen, befriend the florist

Many might think that’s a cliché and all women do not love flowers, flowers do not have to be red roses, investigate on which smell your partner is sensitive to or simply ask which flowers or plant she prefers and drop by the florist more than once a year on random occasions.